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How to Calm Your Nervous System During the Holidays (and Anytime Life Feels Overwhelming)

How to Calm Your Nervous System During the Holidays (and Anytime Life Feels Overwhelming)

If you’re feeling wired, tired, overstimulated, irritable, or emotionally stretched thin, you are not alone — and you’re not broken. What you’re feeling is nervous system dysregulation, and this time of year can push even the strongest of us over the edge.
Between holiday schedules, sugar, social expectations, overstimulation, late nights, and the mental load of remembering everything for everyone… your nervous system reads it all as a physical threat.
Cortisol rises.
Blood sugar swings.
Your brain becomes hyper-vigilant.
Your patience disappears.
Your sleep crashes.
Your energy drains.
The good news?
You can retrain your nervous system — and you can start today.
This article gives you simple, actionable steps to calm your stress response, support your hormones, protect your mental health, and restore balance even in the chaos.
To watch the full teaching and dive deeper, stream the episode now on Awakened Wellness TV:
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Why Your Nervous System Feels Overloaded

Most people think their irritability, anxiety, or lack of motivation is “just their personality.”
It’s not.
Your nervous system interprets:
  • noise
  • sugar
  • overstimulation
  • poor sleep
  • deadlines
  • multitasking
  • emotional load
  • EMF exposure
  • and even late-night scrolling
…as an ongoing threat.
This triggers your fight-or-flight response, leading to symptoms like:
  • tension headaches
  • fatigue
  • digestive issues
  • mood swings
  • overwhelm
  • anxiety
  • chronic pain
  • autoimmune flare-ups
This is physiology — not weakness.
And once you understand how to support the system that runs everything, your whole life begins to shift.

7 Tools to Calm Your Nervous System Fast

These strategies work in real life, even if you're busy, overwhelmed, or stretched thin.

1. Box Breathing (4-7-8 Pattern)

This isn’t “just take a deep breath.”
This is a neurological reset button.
Try:
  • Inhale for 4
  • Hold for 7
  • Exhale for 8
    Repeat 4 rounds.
This helps your brain flip from “threat” mode to “safe” mode in under two minutes.

2. Hydrate With Minerals

Most people are dehydrated and mineral-deficient — especially under stress.
My favorites:
  • Baja Gold
  • Redmond Sea Salt
  • Celtic Salt
Put a pinch right on your tongue while drinking water. Hydration + minerals relax the muscles, lower stress hormones, and improve sleep.

3. Shake Off Tension

Literally.
Shake your hands.
Roll your shoulders.
Bounce lightly for 20–30 seconds.
This releases adrenaline and signals your body: we are safe.

4. Protein by 10 AM

The WORST thing you can start your day with:
βœ“ sugar
βœ“ carbs
βœ“ treats
βœ“ “fun” breakfasts
βœ“ kids’ cereal
βœ“ coffee only
The BEST thing you can start with:
Protein.
30–50g in the morning stabilizes blood sugar, mood, and hormones for the entire day.
Kids transform on this one change alone.

5. Take a 48-Hour Break From Multitasking

Ladies…
Too many tabs open in your brain and in your browser.
Multitasking overloads dopamine and keeps your nervous system dysregulated.
Try a 48-hour challenge:
One task at a time.
No stacking.
You will feel the shift.

6. Ask Yourself This One Grounding Question:

"Is this mine to carry?"
Most of what’s weighing you down isn’t even yours.
Quit carrying other people’s stress in your purse.

7. Use Cold Therapy for Immediate Relief

Splash cold water on your face.
Grab a cold washcloth on your neck.
End your shower with 10–30 seconds of cold.
This flips the vagus nerve into reset mode fast.

Your Nervous System Can’t Heal Without Mitochondrial Support

You cannot regulate your nervous system when your mitochondria (your cellular batteries) are depleted.
This is why so many people feel:
  • exhausted
  • inflamed
  • emotionally unstable
  • foggy
  • burnt out
  • “not like themselves”
At Awakened Wellness, we work on the deep root causes:
  • mitochondrial repair
  • drainage pathways
  • cellular detox
  • parasite cleansing
  • liver support
  • gut-brain balance
When you fix the foundation, your body begins to heal — with less resistance and more momentum.

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Join Me on Awakened Wellness TV

If you want to watch this full teaching with visuals, demonstrations, and deeper explanation…
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  • nervous system regulation
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  • mitochondria 101
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  • hormone balance
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  • EMF & circadian rhythm
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You Are Not Broken — You’re Overloaded

When you remove what’s harming the body and replenish what’s missing, the body will heal.
You just need someone to show you the roadmap.
If this post helped you, share it with someone you love.
Let’s help more people awaken to the wellness within.

Tanya Candee RN




When your in a low place with your health you just need someone to believe in you. I Believe in YOU - Nurse Tanya

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Why You Need a Community to Finish What You Started

Why You Need a Community to Finish What You Started

How many times have you set out to make a change—maybe even started the 120-Day Foundation—and then life got in the way? The demands of work, family, and stress creep in, and before you know it, you’ve lost momentum.
Or maybe you did finish strong but felt that familiar letdown once the program ended, wishing you had people to keep walking with.
That’s why I created a private community that meets every Sunday evening on Zoom.
This isn’t just another Facebook group you’ll forget about. This is a gathering of like-minded people who understand what it means to try again, to persevere, and to keep building a healthier life even when the world feels heavy.

What Makes This Community Different

✨ It’s not about perfection. Everyone in the group has stumbled at some point. You’re welcome whether you crushed your first round or barely made it through week two.
✨ It’s about shared strength. We celebrate wins, troubleshoot struggles, and lean on each other when it gets hard.
✨ It’s about growth. Each week, you’ll learn simple strategies to keep pressing forward with lifestyle upgrades, stress resilience, and real-world tools you can actually use.
Most importantly—you won’t feel like you’re doing it alone.

How to Join

Here’s the beautiful part: all paths lead to the same circle. To get your invite, simply subscribe to one of my affordable coaching options. No matter which one fits your life right now, you’ll have access to the Sunday community:
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Each option is designed to meet you where you’re at. You choose the door—but they all lead to the same powerful community.

Why You Can’t Afford to Miss This

The truth is, transformation rarely happens in isolation. Healing sticks when you’re surrounded by people who remind you why you started and cheer you on when it gets messy.
This Sunday circle is more than a Zoom call. It’s a lifeline—a place to be real, to find answers, and to keep pressing forward when everything else tells you to quit.
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When your in a low place with your health you just need someone to believe in you. I Believe in YOU - Nurse Tanya

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